Stories of my wife's past have really hurt me, what can I do to get over this?
Q. i m 37 yrs old male, my wife hurt me by telling her old love story, i feel really pain and i can't forget that, what can i do to over come this?...
A. 2 July 2010: think of it this way, after a love like that she picked YOU. your love is stronger than the guy before you! think of her telling you that as a sign she she fells nothing can tear you two apart :)... (read in full...)
How can it be love if they need to be drunk to have sex?
Q. Is someone really in love with you when the only time they have sex with you is when they are drunk?...
A. 2 July 2010: No... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want to gangbang me with another guy?
Q. so, i have been with my husband for a little over a yr and we've been married for 4 months of that year. i know...we moved way too fast...but i am also 8 months pregnant... anyways, i've always known my husband has always wanted to try the whole sw...
A. 1 July 2010: well he could be... your married too fast. you should have told each other your craziest fantasies before you got hitched. he could be gay if he wants to blow a guy... never met a straight guy that did. sorry. ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant again.
Q. i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i...
A. 1 July 2010: maybe an open adoption? you can still see your children and watch them grow up without being responsible for them. im sorry your going through some rough times but you can handle it or it would't have happened. you seem like you really care about ... (read in full...)
I know I will end up getting hurt by this married man but part of me wants to know how it would feel to make love to him!
Q. I'm in love with a married man that I have been dating now for two months. we never slept together,but I'm planning on sleeping with him soon. I'm a little afraid because I think I may get hurt.I know the easy thing would be to run away now! but a ...
A. 1 July 2010: YOU think you'll get hurt? do you have any idea what marriage is? have you ever been to a wedding? when two people hopelessly in love with each other decide to stay together for the rest of their lives. ever seen that look of pure love in their eyes ... (read in full...)
True Love: Fact or Fiction?
Q. Let me tell you a story. When I was a little girl I used to pretend that I was a princess who was awaiting prince charming. He was always the picture perfect man: tall, lean, stunning, poetic, and the type of guy who'd sweep you off your feet. I...
A. 1 July 2010: awwww thats adorable! really reassures me =] im happy you found your prince charming... i have sort of a similar story only it ends before i meet my prince charming. oh well your story gives me hope :) thanks ... (read in full...)
It seems to me that we will never change our men. Take them as they are.
Q. I have been reading everyone’s posts and I am new to this but it has helped me already and I feel my husband is not as bad as some. I have been married for 20 years and I have a daughter with cystic fibrosis. This has caused an immense strain on our ...
A. 1 July 2010: im sorry to hear about your daughter. maybe the two of you need a second honeymoon? or to renew your vowels, write your own so you know how you really feel about each other! do something romantic that he won't expect at ALL. like say your eating ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my gay friend but he doesn't want to spend time with me anymore!
Q. i'm in love with my gay friend, recently i use to hang out with him a lot but now its been 3 weeks he is avoiding me and doesnt want to hang no more... what should i do?...
A. 1 July 2010: he is probably avoiding you because he can tell your interested. im sorry but you've got to face it he's gay! you could be the prettiest, nicest, most perfect girl in the world and it wouldn't matter... he likes guys. imagine this, you have a friend ... (read in full...)
I have caught my girl cheating three times!
Q. my girl has been cheating on me, i have caught her more than three time now, she saying that she will not do it again but she keep liyimg to me , im fed up ,what do i do? [Mod note: text was edited for clarity. I hope I got it right.]...
A. 28 June 2010: im sorry, i don't get how people can cheat... if she did it three times she is going to do it again. i hate to say this but she chose those guys over you, you deserve better. now choose yourself over her. hope you find someone who treats you right ... (read in full...)
How does nipple color determine how she is in her sexual life?
Q. hiiii all once aging i want to know sm thing ... may be its can be funny question...but i want ans... different-different women have different-different color of nipple of Brest… So my question is if sm women has light Pink color o...
A. 28 June 2010: ahh, im with cindycares i wanted to know my color lol... (read in full...)
What do girls really look for in a man. (honest views only)
Q. Can I ask a question to the girls in this site and be completly honest. "What do you really lok for in a guy" I always see answers like good listener caring faithfull not cocky class good career prospects But never does "good looks" ev...
A. 28 June 2010: oh, don't say that! you'll find someone :) and it will be worth the wait. okay, the truth yea girls want good listening, caring, faithful men, but for most of us they have to be attractive to get our attention in the first place. money is very ... (read in full...)
Question to all those who workout regularly
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 23 year old guy and weigh 62Kg (136lb). I have been going to the gym for the past 2 months. I follow the following routine: (1) Cardio on elliptical for 30 mins every alternate day. In this, I take the interval traini...
A. 28 June 2010: thats a pretty good workout, your eating right and sleeping well. good for you! you should try running too. not on a treadmill but outside on trails. its such a rush! it works every part of your body and clears your head. every time im mad or upset ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am a loser, what am I going to do now I am going to Highschool?
Q. i am a 15 year old girl and you could say that i am not really that fun to be around, i like barely have friends no one ever wants to spend the night with me i am lucky if a guy even looks at me and also the worst thing is i am going into highschool ...
A. 28 June 2010: you don't have to worry :)
thats exactly how my life has always been. in intermediate and middle school i was pretty much alone all the time. i knew that if people talked to me i would be nice and a good friend but no one did. and my sister was a ch... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity and gotten pregnant at the same time?
Q. okay so i am 17 and i lost my virginity thursday like 3 in the morning in the pool and it didnt hurt at all, but, it was only in me for like 3 minutes and when he pushed me away i looked down , and he had nutted. im sooo scared idk anything about ...
A. 28 June 2010: first of all, why are you having sex if you don't know anything about pregnancy? yes you should be worried if he cummed inside you. i'd get a few pregnancy tests just in case. and if you are please, please, please don't get an abortion! there are ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I've never masturbated?
Q. hies all, friends i'm a 19 year old male, and you may find it shocking but it's truth that i've never masturbated in my life. is something really bad,,? i've a few times(2or3) tried to masturbate by shaking my dick, but the white fluid won't co...
A. 28 June 2010: no, theres nothing wrong with you. please don't worry about it. some people just don't have that much of a sex drive, or maybe you need a partner to get off. i can't masturbate. i just don't find doing it myself all that pleasuring. i hope this ... (read in full...)
Sick of hearing all my friends' sex stories!
Q. All my friends ever talk about now were 18 seems to be sex, we've all had it but I haven't for ages and it just makes me feel so undesireable, how can I not be so affected by tem all just alking about their boyfriends and sex? It just makes me feel ...
A. 28 June 2010: i know how you feel. im waiting for the right guy and all my friends talk about is their boyfriends at first it was kind of cute but now it's annoying and it makes me feel no one wants me. just wait, you'll find someone. or maybe you could tell them ... (read in full...)
Is There a Reason I Seem to Prefer Older Men?
Q. First of all, I'm 17, the age on this is wrong. I was really good friends with this guy, lets call him chris, and I was completely in love with him. We slept together, then after two weeks of not talking we became fwb, then he started going out with...
A. 28 June 2010: some girls are legitimately attracted to older guys. i am. i can't help it. i always fall for my teachers and find my friends dads very attractive. i think there more mature than teenage boys. and i feel like they can take better care f me. there ... (read in full...)
Different Qualities, Can Only Have One, Suggestions,Please??
Q. Hey everyone I wonder if you could help me/give some advice on my dilemma please. All my life I have been single. I’ve never had a girlfriend (don’t get me wrong I had some teenage crushes but they were just rose tinted teenage dreams), but...
A. 28 June 2010: awww! you seem like a really sweet person. of coarse girls are going to like you! i think its too soon to tell. you should spend more time with one and see how you feel. personally, the first one sounds better. i mean you called her your "dream ... (read in full...)
I Want to Choose, But Need Some Help??
Q. Loving two people Having them love you back Isn't it what everyone wants? I hate it Being torn between them Being forced to choose Feeling regret Feeling ashamed But in the end.. One of them is always there for me When one can't be the...
A. 28 June 2010: i have a friend with this problem. exactly this problem, she has a boyfriend who is upset all the time over stupid things, he ignores her around his friends, he has a lot of friends that are girls that like him, he has cheated on her before, but she ... (read in full...)
He's never lasted longer than 5 minutes! Ever!
Q. My fiance and I have been dating for almost three years. We've been having sex for more then a year and he's still having troubles lasting [as in we've never had sex for more then five minutes, ever!]! WE both lost our virginity to each other and ...
A. 28 June 2010: maybe he medically can't hold it, have you been to a professional? perhaps he might need a little help like ecstasy... congrats on getting married though! hope ypu live long happy lives :)... (read in full...)
She won't accept that her weight is the reason men are not interested in her.
Q. My girfriend and I have a very close friend. She is a wonderful girl. It's always the same scene with her. She meets a guy, they are really into each other for a few days / weeks, then the guy realizes how heavy she is and distances himself. (I'm ...
A. 28 June 2010: if you really want her to be happy and find a man you have to help her. if she thinks men like thick girls, that means she doesn't think she can lose the weight. if she could magically make her thin im sure she wouldn't hesitate to do so. maybe you ... (read in full...)
I've had a crush on her for years, but don't know if I should pursue a relationship!
Q. Let me start at the begining. 5 years ago I was working at a local grocery store. I start walking down one of the isles and I spot a young girl that I, for some reason, can't take my eyes off. From that day on for about two years she comes in and ...
A. 25 June 2010: first of all thats adorable. love at first sight3. okay, the child is a piece of her, if you like her that much, you will like the child too. who knows, maybe you will form a great relationship with the kid and be a male role model considering their ... (read in full...)
I tried to give him my virginity, but couldn't. Now he won't text me anymore!
Q. hi, i am chelsea... well i went to my friends house and i met her cousin jake. we had been talking for the past month on myspace but we really hadnt met. he seemed very sweet and he used to txt me everyday first. well we talked about the day i was ...
A. 25 June 2010: first of all i know you think your in love, but your not. i know thats not at all what you want to hear but its true. you think i don't understand and i don't know how you feel about him. you can't see yourself with anyone else and he is your one ... (read in full...)
Why does he act so distant physically, even though he says he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 month tells me that he loves me all the times. However, he doesn't really show it. We are together at least 5-6 nights out of the week. He doesn't touch my breasts or grabs my buttocks. He caresses me and hugs me constantly, but we ...
A. 25 June 2010: maybe he isn't a breast man. why don't YOU try to initiate foreplay? he sounds more romantic than sexual, and you sound more sexual than romantic. i know we girls have our needs but he sounds like a nice guy. he might not know what to do. try ... (read in full...)
Why is she angry that I told her she was easy, when she is?
Q. So my girlfriend and I have a close mutual friend. She says she only fools/sleeps around with men if she potentailly sees them in a relationship. And she's had a few flings. So the other day she was wondering why this guy, whom she was seeing...
A. 25 June 2010: in the society we live in today, for some reason its okay for guys to be easy. we actually except it and expect it. but, if a girl is considered easy she is a whore and a slut. therefore she doesn't want to be called easy because the reputation ... (read in full...)
Why is he locking himself in the bathroom with his laptop?
Q. This guy and i have been together for over a year now. i thought everything was going fine. now he locks himself in the bathroom with his laptop. is he cheating or am i just paranoid?...
A. 25 June 2010: he could just be a very private person. i get embarrassed over nothing things and will refuse to talk bout it and get angry. and then when i don't tell they think im doing something bad. maybe he is just a private person. be sure to tell him that ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have feelings for my best friend?
Q. I'm worried my husband has a crush on my best friend. They have gotten really close over the past year and I'm wondering if he has a crush or if I'm just being paranoid. What are signs I should look for that show he may be interested in more than ...
A. 25 June 2010: well, there isn't enough information. what do you mean by "gotten really close" do they hang out without you? talk on the phone a lot? if they dis-include you and hang out a lot there might be something up, think of it this way, usually people who ... (read in full...)
My wife was a teenage slut - accepting her promiscuous past
Q. I just wanted to post this due to all the posts re girls with promiscuous pasts. Here is my story. I fell head over heels for my now wife when she was 22 and I 23. Our relationship progressed and soon we both realized we were utterly in love ...
A. 25 June 2010: well, the way i see it, your married to a beautiful, faithful, woman and after 20 years of a great marriage, you still have a good sex life. whats the problem? it doesn't matter how you got to be the people you are, its the people you turn out to be ... (read in full...)
I plan to move to America... but how do I to tell Mum and Dad!
Q. hello reader i am 17 and i didn't stay at school or go to college i have regretted that as i haven't been able to fibd work. i am now thinking about going back to college and getting some education the thing is next year if i have enough m...
A. 25 June 2010: first of all, were do you live now?
America is in a recession... not the best time to move here but, its a great place to live if you know were to go. there are areas i would HATE to live like the city. this is just my opinion but the country is a... (read in full...)
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